As a coach in private practice for over twenty six years, I have had the joy of helping many individuals and couples. My gaze is turned toward the core positive self in every person as well as the dysfunctional patterns and deep trauma that block full development. My method gives couples the skills to deeply listen and share with one another in a way that promotes effective communication for all aspects of their lives. The method teaches couples how to cultivate their deep love and bond for one another. This method helps each partner take responsibility for the baggage they bring into the relationship. I show them how to manage their disproportionate reactions and/or discordant behavior so that it no longer creates disharmony in their relationship.